Valentine's Day has evolved in Sweden into something unique: All Hearts Day - Alla Hjärtans Dag. Is it a bit of a no-no to have a day that's all about lovers? I guess it is, considering how Swedish people put a lot of emphasis on equality and inclusion. It reminds me of those family photo sessions where the parents are about to kiss, and then the kids suddenly jump in to join!
So what is the Swedish take on love? Compared to the other places I have lived, the Swedish way is definitely much more subtle and low-key, with no flashy marketing jargon. Here, love is celebrated in a way that feels genuine and heartfelt, without the need for grand gestures or over-the-top displays.
In Sweden, it's the small, everyday moments that count. A simple fika date, a walk in the woods, or cooking a meal together - these are the ways Swedes show their love and appreciation for each other. It's about quality time and meaningful connections rather than materialistic gifts.
I like how everything is done in an understated style; for me, there is an elegance to it. "Lagom" - not too much, not too little, just right - forms the true spirit of Scandinavian living. This philosophy is also reflected in how Swedes approach love and relationships, finding a balance that feels comfortable and natural.
Extending beyond romantic relationships, Alla Hjärtans Dag is a day to celebrate all forms of love, whether it's between friends, family members, or partners. It keeps things cool and composed, making every heartfelt moment truly special. I heart it!
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